I spank rarely because I believe that whichever tools I employ in my parenting, must not be overused. I have a daughter who will be 2 in a few days and she responds very well to time outs done in nanny fashion. By over punishing them, are you really achieving anything? After calming down, we talk and explain things and I always tell my kids that they're free to say anything on their mind. So if hard numbers can't prove that spanking is good or bad or safe or dangerous, perhaps it's not a data issue to begin with.
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How Can Parents Discipline Without Spanking?
And not just physical pain but emotional and social discomfort as well - all for the purpose of re-balancing our bodies and trying to make us feel good again. Strong willed children can make wonderful adults. It is actually a line from a 17th century poem, and in the context, references an erotic spanking between lovers disturbing, then, that the phrase is used to condone the same act forced on children, no? I often sent her to her room more to help myself than to discipline her. Make one partner get things ready while the other watches. See what garners a positive reaction. Good, consensual BDSM is performed with a partner who wants to please you and support you, not destroy you or punish you the way you do to yourself when you self-harm from a depressed headspace.
Help knowledge-based, ethical journalism today. There are many tools in my parenting toolbelt that I use that are non-violent and always work. The child should stay there for roughly one minute for every year of age so a 2-year-old stays for two minutes. He said if spanking was a pre-established consequence so that the child knows it is the direct result of a particular behaviour i. Have family rules respect each other and choices, opinion, etc. If you are wishy-washy, kids will be confused -- and see it as an opportunity.
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All said and done, I feel appreciative that he cares enough to do it. There are the basics…no disrespect, no disobedience, no dishonesty but also things he wants done by a certain time and a certain day. Hi Brittany, it sounds like Amelia has learned that she can take advantage of you. Even her boss at her summer job when we first started dating said he had never seen her get flustered. This authority transferred to the husband after the couple married. You and all the other people in this world that use the bible to defend their horrible acts, really disgust me!
Spanking and the Brain